Hey besties,

October is here, and so are some of my favorite things: pumpkin spice, Halloween movies, and of course, spooky confetti. There’s a chill in the air in New York City… but on YouPay? Things are heating up, and I can’t wait to tell you all about what we’ve been working on.

Welcome to this month’s edition of What’s Up With You(Pay) — a monthly newsletter for the YouPay community on platform updates, new features, information and resources, events, giveaways, and highlighting featured creators. At this point, you probably know me… but just in case, I’ll introduce myself: I’m Victoria, and I’m a writer, editor, researcher, financial dominatrix, and YouPay’s VP of Creator Relations. I’m here to talk about what we’re doing here at YouPay, for you and with you!


🔥 What’s New? 🔥
Features and Events


New payout methods are here, expanding instant withdrawals around the world!

  • Creators are now eligible to withdraw funds from their Creatorflow to bank accounts, PayPal, Venmo, crypto wallets, debit cards, mobile wallet, SEPA transfers, or international bank wire via Swift!
  • This expansion means YouPay is now available for creators in 223 countries and territories!
  • Read more about our supported regions here.

YouPay Cocktail Club is returning to NYC! A night of cocktails, mocktails, and creators celebrating the start of the fall season and all they’ve accomplished. We’d love it if you’d join us!

  • Where: Downtown Manhattan
  • When: October 23rd at 8:00 pm
  • Who: Creators and their (approved) +1’s. Get on the list here!
  • Wear: Dress to the 9’s, but you’re always a 10! We will have an event photographer, so show up and show off!

You Asked, We Built It: The YouPay App is HERE!

  • The YouPay Wishlist App is available now in the Apple App Store and Google Play Store!
  • Download the app today to enable push notifications when you get gifted or poked! Check out our new and improved interface! The little icons on your dropdown menu are super cute. More fun features are coming soon!
  • Read more about the app on the YouPay blog!
  • Find it in the App Store by searching “YouPay Wishlist App.”

Have you checked out our newest feature: Poke Your LURKERS!

  • Creators can now see fans that are signed in and looking at their wishlists… and poke them to let them know you caught them!
  • If you’re seeing primarily anonymous viewers, encourage your fans and followers to sign up for YouPay!
  • If they need a little incentive, remind them that verified fans pay a reduced fee if they’re signed in! More money in their pockets means more money can end up in yours!
  • We recently updated the feature to allow you to poke a lurker again and again once they’ve sent a poke back… meaning you can drain a silent sender without ever saying a word!
  • Sera created a short video tutorial on the lurkers feature. Watch it here!

We updated our privacy settings! Check out yours and set them to your preferences!

  • Sera, YouPay’s Community Education Manager, shared a post on X detailing the new privacy options for both fans and creators.
  • New settings include activity visibility for both fans and creators, a gifting feed display on your profile, checkout upselling, and opting in or out of a public wallet balance display on fan accounts. Exciting!

If you follow our technical lead, Clara, on X you may have already seen… but we’re working on a YOUPAY CARD! More details will be available on this soon, but for now, we couldn’t resist teasing it and getting the creator community excited.


💜 Featured Creators 💜
Writers, Models, and Muses


Creators are our focus at YouPay: we highlight, showcase, and represent creators who are actually using the platform as our models, muses, and content collaboration partners!

Introducing Our Brand Ambassador, Lauren Phillips!

  • We’re excited to announce that Lauren Phillips has officially joined YouPay as a brand ambassador! Check out her announcement video here.
  • We met Lauren at XBIZ Miami and found that we shared common goals: creator education, safe and secure ways for adult entertainers to make money, and developing connection as a creator. It only seemed natural to work together, and we can’t wait to showcase Lauren’s life (and wishlist) with YouPay, and with you!
  • Follow Lauren on Instagram, TikTok, and X to keep up with our collaboration: @LaurenFillsUp is her username!

Featured Blog: Aerie Saunders Explains How To Use Your Wishlist to Get What You Want!

Please follow Lauren, Aerie, and YouPay on social and show your support for authentic, inclusive, adult-industry creator representation.


That’s what’s up with YouPay, and we can’t wait to hear what’s up with you!

PS: You can always message us on social media with any questions you may have, and please tag us in posts showing off your gifts, merch, and wishlist! YouPay exists for YOU: share your thoughts on the platform via the “give feedback” function, explore our support database articles or contact our support team if you need assistance. Remember: we’re here to help, to celebrate your accomplishments, and to help enable you to monetize your brand and influence: safely, securely, and with same-day and instant payouts.